Long time ago I came across this very interesting post on Huffingtonpost Canada that explores the Most Common Problems People Have In Bed, According To Sex Experts. And as I was reading it, it made me thing about my sex life (lately very quiet, as a matter of fact).
Over all, I cannot say I have a large millage (if you know what I mean). I can, (proudly) still count my number of sexual partners by my 2 hands. And I say proudly because, for me it is and it has always been a conscientious. I have several friends who choose to have seldom sexual partners per week, and I actually admire them. Although, for me, for who I am as a person that does not work. Period. I tried it. Believe me, but sex always came hand-in-hand with Love. To the point that I only had my first one-night-stand last year (at the age of 29) and after that I convinced myself I had feeling for him (CRAZY, I know). Let me tell you, it was not beautiful!
But going back to the post I read online. The common problems people have in bed. Well, thinking of my past relationship with Ed. We were together for a total of 6 years and towards the end, things were very, very cold. I can honestly admit that is was painful for me to have sex with him and I got quite good at faking it. To the point where sex was a task and not pleasure. It's not easy for me to reach on orgasm, but I do sincerely enjoy the process. Although, I was completely over him and mostly due to his selfishness. Ed, a natural taker - during sex it was all about him.
Taking about Ursinho... It's a total different conversation. I think of him my panties literally drop... Still! He is sexy, intelligent and sex is all about his having pleasure by giving me pleasure. And he knows how to use those fingers very, very, very well. Like no other, so far.
Ahhhh! Let's not even go there...
I'll leave you with another interesting post about sexual fantasies and what's is normal or not. Enjoy.
Happy Holidays.
Over all, I cannot say I have a large millage (if you know what I mean). I can, (proudly) still count my number of sexual partners by my 2 hands. And I say proudly because, for me it is and it has always been a conscientious. I have several friends who choose to have seldom sexual partners per week, and I actually admire them. Although, for me, for who I am as a person that does not work. Period. I tried it. Believe me, but sex always came hand-in-hand with Love. To the point that I only had my first one-night-stand last year (at the age of 29) and after that I convinced myself I had feeling for him (CRAZY, I know). Let me tell you, it was not beautiful!
But going back to the post I read online. The common problems people have in bed. Well, thinking of my past relationship with Ed. We were together for a total of 6 years and towards the end, things were very, very cold. I can honestly admit that is was painful for me to have sex with him and I got quite good at faking it. To the point where sex was a task and not pleasure. It's not easy for me to reach on orgasm, but I do sincerely enjoy the process. Although, I was completely over him and mostly due to his selfishness. Ed, a natural taker - during sex it was all about him.
Taking about Ursinho... It's a total different conversation. I think of him my panties literally drop... Still! He is sexy, intelligent and sex is all about his having pleasure by giving me pleasure. And he knows how to use those fingers very, very, very well. Like no other, so far.
Ahhhh! Let's not even go there...
I'll leave you with another interesting post about sexual fantasies and what's is normal or not. Enjoy.
Happy Holidays.
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